114 HAWAII PARENT May/June 2024 restaurant or asking for help from a teacher. Teach Basic Table Manners: Teach children table-setting etiquette, proper utensil use, and to engage in polite conversations during meals instead of being glued to their electronic devices. Make it a family routine to emphasize the importance of these manners. Model the importance of taking a break from cell phones, tablets, video games, etc. Respect for Others: Emphasize respecting others’ personal space, belongings, and feelings. Teach them to listen when others are speaking and wait their turn. Children who learn the value of patience become less demanding, have fewer tantrums, and can better regulate their emotions throughout their life. Phone and Technology Etiquette: Model appropriate behavior when using phones or other technology, including not interrupting lectures, taking privileges away, or a stern look often creates resentment. Explain the “Whys”: Young children may not understand why or how to engage in positive social interactions, so it’s important to help them understand the reasons behind good manners. For example, waiting your turn when speaking shows respect for others’ opinions and feelings and creates a positive environment where each person feels appreciated. Role-playing: Engage in role-playing scenarios to help children practice proper manners and behavior in different situations. Children learn best when they find learning lessons entertaining. For example, setting up a pretend tea party where children take turns being the host and guest can teach them about table manners and polite conversation. You can also create scenarios based on real-life situations, such as ordering food at a Role-playing scenarios can be a fun and effective way to teach children about proper etiquette and good manners. “Young children may not understand why or how to engage in positive social interactions…”
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