tivate a better understanding of the importance of treating others with respect, acceptance, and kindness, regardless of our differences. These scenarios do not only include those with mental challenges, as it impacts those with physical challenges as well. No matter what someone may look or even act like, recognizing the possibility that it is out of their control is the first step in addressing this to young children. On top of that comes realizing that no matter what, everyone is worth the same compassion and is deserving of dignity and respect from their peers. Some children may be afraid of becoming friends with someone different from them due to fear of judgement from other students. This is something I have dealt with growing up as well. What will others think of me? What if I end up by myself, too? However, instilling the concept of doing the right thing in our young keiki will prove to be beneficial in the long run. Giving in to these conceived societal pressures may not only take away from their peers but more importantly themselves. Those in special education are not going anywhere, and it is time for us to make an honest effort to turn the tables on how they are treated. For children without special needs, the key to communicating and building friendships with those who are often lies in exposure and experience. By providing opportunities for children to interact in inclusive environments, they can develop empathy, understanding, and appreciation for their peers. Best Buddies International is a club that unites special education students with their peers during lunch and after-school activities. At many campuses around the world, from elementary to college level, it is a Encourage your child to be attentive and observant, to use simple and clear language, and to be sensitive to the person’s needs and preferences. Remind them to avoid making assumptions, to give the person time to respond, and to always treat everyone with kindness and respect. From a young age, acknowledging differences may lead to a better understanding of peers in the future. People may fear or even ridicule what they don’t understand. But what point is there in that? Instead, children could be taught to embrace the beauty and worth of learning new things about new people; cultivating positive relationships that last a lifetime while encouraging others to do the same. Young children may tend to stare at what makes them curious. Something they have not seen before or something they do not understand. I remember doing the same as a young child. However, thanks to the guidance of my parents, I began to cul138 HAWAII PARENT May/June 2024 “Best Buddies has taught me that every person wants similar, if not the same things, within a friendship.”
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