5) Problem Solving and Conflict Resolution. Guide children in resolving conflicts by teaching them problem-solving skills. Instead of fixing the problem, allow children to resolve their own conflicts. Their increased confidence will prepare them for future challenges. When parents step in too much, children become dependent on having someone else solve their problems. 6) Use of Tone and Voice. Teach children how changes in tone and volume can convey different meanings. Help them recognize the impact of their tone for the message they’re trying to convey. Many children lack the emotional intelligence to know their tone and voice, greatly impacting their social interactions. Overreacting is the major cause of mental breakdowns or unnecessary fights in and out of the school. 7) Role Playing. Children can learn to see situations from different perspectives children can pick up on signs that indicate when someone needs space, is upset, or is receptive to communication. This awareness helps to navigate disagreements with sensitivity and understanding and avoid unnecessary conflict. 3) Teaching Empathy. Help kids understand the feelings of others by discussing perspectives and encouraging them to put themselves in someone else’s shoes. Many arguments can be resolved from practicing empathy, resulting in healthier connections, regulating their feelings, and improved behavior. 4) Expressing Emotions. Encourage children to identify and express their emotions in a healthy way. Teach them words to describe their feelings and how to communicate their needs. Are they angry, sad, hopeless? What do they need to feel better? Children who are heard, understood, and not judged learn how to manage their emotions more effectively. “Help them recognize the impact of their tone for the message they’re trying to convey.” 94 HAWAII PARENT May/June 2024 Body language plays a crucial role in conveying emotions, thoughts, and intentions, sometimes even more than words themselves.
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